The Importance of the Opposite Sex and Dating


There’s a reason why there is a male for every female and vice versa. Have you ever thought about getting married, being loved, and loving someone else ? If your a normal individual you have thought about who your soulmate is at least once. Why is it so hard to date, court, and get married nowadays if there’s somebody for everybody? Dating is a vicious cycle. Men are supposedly the predators yet you have more women taking that position today throwing the chemical balance off between men and women. More men are becoming use to flocking females, thots, whores, hoes, whatever you call them because women are allowing too much inconsistency, red flags, and chilling in their life. Knowing your worth is worth your while and can help you figure out major decisions in your life. Don’t know your self worth, spend time with yourself and figure it out.

Understand the Process and Term


. Dating

a. to be a boyfriend or girlfriend of (someone of the opposite sex)

b. to accompany (a member of the opposite sex) on a date

 
Dating consist of social activities between two people with the aim of assessing each others compatibility/suitably to be partners in an intimate relationship, and or spouse. Dating is a social relationship, casual and fun. So What are the protocol, rules and practices to dating ? It’s the   idea of searching for your soulmate, so it applies differently according to your location in the world, sex, and interest. 

.Courting 

a. to seek another’s love; woo.

b. to attempt to gain (applause, favor, a decision, etc.).



Dating VS. Courting

 
Is there really a difference between the two ? Well you know my favorite thing is to dissect, so let’s figure it out.


Courting is getting to know someone with the intentions of building a lasting long term monogamous or polyamorous relationship. (It’s called OFFICIALLY being in a relationship with actual goals and plans).

Dating is couple planned activities, scouting options that are available to you, with intentions of becoming romantically involved. (otherwise known as practice) it’s figuring things out, figuring out what you want and what you don’t want.

In my opinion yes, it’s levels to relationships., dating isn’t easy and courting is no easier but between the two dating is a lot easier than courting someone. The only difference between courting is that you have made the conscious decision of investing in something that you’re interested in, care about, and find worth while that could turn into something worth living for.

Stages of Dating

Attraction/ Choosing
Uncertainty/ Deciding if the person is right for you

Becoming exclusive (mutual decision to become committed)

Last but not least Courting
 
 
 
My experience with dating these past four years has been crazy but well worth getting to know me as a woman. This topic has been well researched and lived to back up the details in this post. I’ve become confident with what I want as a woman, comfortable with choosing my man after he has chosen me. It’s not about being thirsty for someone but its about being appreciated and shown interest in who you truly are, while giving back what’s given to you. Dating is fun but courting should always be your goal. From personal experience:Never settle for less than what you want, deserve, and seek, don’t waste your time. 

Lets get back to basics.

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2 thoughts on “The Importance of the Opposite Sex and Dating

  1. How many do you advise one to court at once or date at once? How many before things become in unhealthy in the learning experience?

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    1. One can date or court however many one chooses to. They just have to be responsible and accountable for their affairs. You have to be a healthy person to have a healthy relationship. If you’re not a healthy person, then you need to work on that, because then you are only attracting what you are or should I say yourself? 😊 relationships are arrangements of engagement sort to speak.

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