There’s a reason why there is a male for every female and vice versa. Have you ever thought about getting married, being loved, and loving someone else ? If you’re a normal individual you have thought about who your soulmate is at least once.
Why is it so hard to date, court, and get married nowadays if there’s somebody for everybody? Dating is a vicious cycle.
Men are supposedly the predators, yet you have more women taking that position today throwing the chemical balance off between men and women.
More men are becoming use to flocking females, thots, whores, hoes, whatever you call them because women are allowing too much inconsistency, red flags, and chilling in their life.
Knowing your worth is worth your while and can help you figure out major decisions in your life. Don’t know your self worth, spend time with yourself and figure it out.
Understand the Process and Term
. Dating
a. to be a boyfriend or girlfriend of (someone of the opposite sex)
b. to accompany (a member of the opposite sex) on a date
Dating consist of social activities between two people with the aim of assessing each others compatibility/suitably to be partners in an intimate relationship, and or spouse. Dating is a social relationship, casual and fun. So What are the protocol, rules and practices to dating ? It’s the idea of searching for your soulmate, so it applies differently according to your location in the world, sex, and interest.
.Courting
a. to seek another’s love; woo.
b. to attempt to gain (applause, favor, a decision, etc.).
Dating VS. Courting
Is there really a difference between the two ? Well you know my favorite thing is to dissect, so let’s figure it out.
Courting is getting to know someone with the intentions of building a lasting long term monogamy or polyamory relationship. (It’s called OFFICIALLY being in a relationship with actual goals and plans).
Dating is couple planned activities, scouting options that are available to you, with intentions of becoming romantically involved. (otherwise known as practice) it’s figuring things out, figuring out what you want and what you don’t want.
In my opinion yes, it’s levels to relationships., dating isn’t easy and courting is no easier but between the two dating is a lot easier than courting someone.
The only difference between courting is that you have made the conscious decision of investing in something that you’re interested in, care about, and find worth while that could turn into something worth living for.
Stages of Dating
Attraction/ Choosing
Uncertainty/ Deciding if the person is right for you
Becoming exclusive (mutual decision to become committed)
Last but not least Courting
My experience with dating these past four years has been crazy but well worth getting to know me as a woman.
This topic has been well researched and lived to back up the details in this post. I’ve become confident with what I want as a woman, comfortable with choosing my man after he has chosen me.
It’s not about being thirsty for someone but its about being appreciated and shown interest in who you truly are, while giving back what’s given to you.
Dating is fun but courting should always be your goal. From personal experience:Never settle for less than what you want, deserve, and seek, don’t waste your time.
What an amazing π play ππ βΌοΈ Je’Caryous prolifically pulled this together. The all-star cast βοΈ fit the roles, and the story twist….well you’ll just have to catch the last two shows tomorrow to see what’s up. <
sed the very beginning when Stony's brother was killed and probably a bit more. It would have been nice to let Stony get away πΆπΏββοΈ the way she did in the movie, rather than the twist. I wasn't really feeling it but it wasn't outrageously altered, It was ππΎ.
I will say that there is a lot of work that still needs to be done. After thinking π€ about it , they could have invested more into the props and marketing.
My favorite part of the play was the reenactment of Cleo's infamous run ππΎββοΈ in with the police π. Yo, they had the fucking blue π car with the hydraulics G.
They sung happy π Birthday π to Da Brat, who's birthday is April 14. Chicago go get your tickets and support the arts π.
Well Nicki Minaj, it’s a hell no π π½ββοΈπ«β for me. I couldn’t even listen ππΎ to either song all the way through. They both were straight trash.
After all the success and jewels you retained, you mean to tell me that you don’t have anything else to talk about other than yourself? When are you going to reinvent yourself?
I truly don’t understand how she assumes she’s the coach when she doesn’t even respect the person she borrows from the most, Lil Kim. Someone needs to take Nicki back to the drawing board because it’s just not working sis.
If you’re human, you have this thing you go through called “human error”, and while this is commonly applied to industries, we’re going to use it in the human communication industry of relationships.
Family is a global business industry. I don’t think I have to explain it to you because I know you know your history and the heritage of humanity especially before industrialism. Humans are natural resources who can seemingly do anything, just about. That main factor that made slavery so popular in the US and abroad is humans ability to regenerate even if not out of love.
What sparked this convo
My cousin shared these thoughts on Facebook:
Look π up the ββ words because we are about to get technical:< em>What is a relationshipβ
A βrelationshipβ is a βshipβ π’ that stores π your βRelationsβ. Two people that have a relationship isnβt guaranteed to be in love π. You can connect by attraction, goals, or aspirations or even security. Sometimes two people connect for a short term that was simply never meant to last but only for you to receive the lesson that life has on your path to teach you. If a βrelationshipβ makes you have these type of thoughts organically then follow your intuition. Donβt anchorβοΈ down because a ship π’ should always βsailβ.
What is the most common mistake that people make in one βπΎβ
The mistake most people make is not being logical about the relationships they build or openly honest with their partner. Sometimes when you grow, itβs nothing personal when someone outgrows someone, itβs life. Be happy π even when youβre growing through hell, discomfort, confusion or chaos, because when you reflect youβll understand why things are never a coincidence. Next time be aware that your soul is sailing β΅οΈ and you’re on a wave π riding to your next destination. Ask yourself: What is the meaning of this? Why is this person here ? Why am I here? Then go from there.
Yesterday at Demera Ethiopian Restaurant, I hosted 8 guest to celebrate the New Year (my new year).Β The benefits of dining with others is the centering of food and conversation which helps to upwardly build relations.
In today’s community or world we don’t eat with our family a lot. We’re typically always on the go, with our extended family from work, or maybe with our friends. Whatever the situation, we aren’t spending two hours a day communally eating.
Eating together and having a quintessential human experience is communal dining. You get to catch up with your peers, family, or partners. It’s a great way to learn from one another and inspire new cuisines, cultural practices, and share information.
Well I’m gone get straight to the point with you. I’m improving my life and culture, so how I bond with humans in my life is utterly important to me. It’s not about one individual but about the unit as a collective. It’s about the whole experience and learning how not to be selfish or kill the mood of others, being aware of how you’re energy (Inner G) impacts others.
See this is why I love Cardi B, because she’s so real that sometimes it’s unbelievable. She’s helping to improve culture through her vehicle, music, and is doing a great job at it. I read one article where they called her “the oracle of our time”.
Remy Ma and Erykah Badu took to Instagram to celebrate her wombniverse in sisterly love.
I just woke up at 2:45am and saw this video; Iβm crying real tears- happy tears. For so many years they made us (women) feel like we had to pretend to be single, pretend to not have a real life, and put our lives on hold to βentertainβ the masses. Meanwhile, you feel trapped in your own body, a prisoner to your career, and so unhappy when you supposed to be having the time of your life.Β @IAmCardiBΒ I am so happy you are free tooπ#QueenSh*tΒ #CongratulationsOnEVERYTHING-Remy Ma
The realist. β€οΈ@iamcardibΒ we watched you turn your empire to a wombniverse! What that says to me is If you can visualize it you can realize it . Keep giving haters a job bb. β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈπ artist –Β @jessijumanji
Do you believe the hype? I’ll just say this, an unnamed source that works within the circle βοΈ mentioned Kris is managing the two.
I don’t get into gossip though but as a journalist I must be honest about what I see π , hear ππΎ, and do π―. Let’s wait until it’s officially confirmed from the source.
Her new album just dropped yesterday, April 6, and it’s honestly a no π« for me Cardi. Simply because I can’t relate to it in the manner she presented herself.
Her album isn’t trash, it’s a “6 out of 10”. She’s has a lot of growing to do as a Master of Ceremony (MC).
What I think doesn’t even matter though because at the end of the day, art is art and art is life. It’s her art, and I appreciate her for sharing it with the world π. I respect Cardi for not switching up and I wish her much prosperity, protection, and peace as she travels the universe.
Umoja describes the First Day of Kwanza in Chicago at the Harold Washington Cultural Center; Dr. Umar Johnson, a Doctor of Clinical Psychology and Certified School Psychologist, was a Keynote Speaker along with a line of talented Artists. Johnson is facing a legal challenge with the Commonwealth State of Pennsylvania, Bureau of Professional and Occupational Affairs aka the State Board of Psychology.
DR UMAR SPEAKS
Japan-China 1.10 Toronto(CA) 2.25 Paterson(NJ) 2.28 Bronx(NY) 3.10 Dallas(TX) 4.23-24 Paris(FR) 4.16-23 Cleveland AFRAM Museum 5.18 Cleveland Graduation(OH) 5.19 Philly Graduation 5.20 Moss Point(MS) 5.22 Dr.Umar Afrika Group 7.24-8.7 pic.twitter.com/Af5Pv5puyL
The first day of Kwanzaa was beautiful. If youβre not familiar with Kwanzaa donβt trip. Kwanzaa is an βAfrican Americanβ seven-day cultural experience recognized each year from December 26-January 1. The seven-day principles are Umoja (Unity), Kujichagulia (Self-Determination), Ujima (Collective Work and Responsibility), Ujamaa (Co-operative Economics), Nia (Purpose), Kummba (Creativity), Imani (Faith).
Ifatunde vs The State: Dr.Umar Represents Himself!! Exclusive Trial Footage!!! https://t.co/VF10a5ZOQM
Set aside all of that, he came through the land and dropped Jewels that are worthy of sharing with Urban (Black) Parents. As a Mentor, I consider this information to be a necessary conversation especially for young parents. Most parents arenβt educated on the business of βEducationβ, and itβs a major responsibility that they are enlighten, so that they can properly do business with them.
Never go to a school meeting by yourself
Do not get your child evaluated if they are in 3rd Grade and under. Philosophical labels are used to diagnose them; not physical, medical, scientific results.
Donβt communicate over the phone, always do it in writing via emails or written documents.
Stop telling the school your business. (*inform your children of this too)
Know that you have a right to a second opinion, especially if theyβre claiming your child has special education needs. Legally the school will pay for the qualified specialist of your choice to evaluate your child for a second opinion.
Do your research and understand the policies that govern education. Donβt just leave it at that either, as a parent know what education is to be able to determine what kind of education your child should receive. What a wonderful way to spend Umoja! It was a pleasure to learn better methods and theories to aid in helping us have a better understanding of developing our children.
Dr. Johnson is in the works of deciding of where he will plant his first school. Heβs deciding between Detroit, Atlanta, and Chicago. Heβs had some conflicts along the way because he wasnβt getting any returned phone calls from real estate interest. Heβs been having other partners and associates call to inquiry about the real estate. Weβll be contacting Dr. Umar Johnson to obtain more information about his plans with FDMG. His mission is to continue uniting the people, to properly educate our boys, and to develop a institution also for our girls. His goal is to create a educational institution that will aid children to tap into their true intelligence which has been underdeveloped by the public school system, for centuries.
Hopefully I hear from Doc soon, I’ll keep you updated.
Ifatunde vs The State: Dr.Umar Thanks his Supporters for overflowing the courtroom & hallway today in Harrisburg…… pic.twitter.com/wTt9qbMcR1